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Thank You Letter to Someone Who Helped Me Grow

Here's one to try together!

Think of someone who changed things for you, then write a letter that tells them exactly how. Ollie bets it makes their whole week!

30 min5 min prepAges 8 and uplow mess

Reviewed by our team.

What you need

  • Paper, 2 or 3 sheets
  • Pencil or pen, 1
  • Envelope, 1
  • Crayons or markers (optional)
  • Photo, 1 (optional)
  • Phone (optional)

How to do it

Grown-up prep: Find a quiet spot, gather paper, a pen and an envelope, and look up the address or phone number of the person your child picks.

  1. Pick one person who made a real difference to you.
    Ask: Who taught you something you still use or think about today?
  2. Sit quietly for one minute and remember three moments with them.
  3. Jot down your three moments as quick notes.
  4. Write your letter: what they did, how it helped, what you can do now.
  5. Read your letter out loud to yourself.
    Ask: Which sentence do you think will make them smile the most?
  6. Add a drawing or a photo to make it extra special.
  7. Fold your letter and slip it into the envelope.
  8. Deliver it in person, mail it, or read it over a call. Ask for help if you need it
  9. Who else made a difference to you? Write another letter next!
    Ask: How do you think they felt when they got your letter?

Play it again

  • Thank you chain: write a new letter each month to a different person who helped you.
  • Mystery thanks: write a short anonymous note to a helper at school or in your neighborhood.
  • Family round: everyone in the family writes a letter on the same night, then shares one favorite line.
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